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In life, we all go through a series of trials, pains, heartaches,
triumphs, and success.
And as we journey through life there are wounds
that no matter how many years have passed the cut still hurts.
Sometimes,
this one person whether a member of the family, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner
or just someone who you knew for one reason or another pulls a knife at your
back leaving a scar that to this day causes you pain directly or indirectly.
Of
course, no one wants to carry a wound all their life. Please, allow yourself to
be healed because you deserve it. You are worthy of inner peace,
happiness, and forgiveness. Therefore, don't let the pain of the past
get in the way and control you. Don't let that unimportant someone force you to
commit a sin.
Although it would not be easy, still let go. I remember reading a quote from @Way2KnowledgePortal
that says "Always the WRONG person teaches the RIGHT lessons in life! (It
is called life experience) Everything is valuable only at 2 times: 1. Before getting
it, 2. After losing it".
Perhaps you can use this to understand whoever that hurts you. I mean, try to be in that situation, assimilate yourself then slowly try
to move on and forgive. If you cannot forgive the person, maybe you can
forgive yourself for allowing yourself to be consumed this long by hatred,
anger, or pain.
Forgiveness is a long process so better start now. That way you are letting yourself see the true beauty of peace. Be healed in order for you to also be an instrument of healing of other people.
There is
no precise formula for getting healed but you can always start by praying for that person. Ask for spiritual intervention, that hearing his/her name or seeing the person again would eventually not matter to you anymore. Repeat this process until you can feel no more. Soon you would be
surprised by the miracle of prayers. And when that day comes that the plug filled with pain, anger or aches is no more, please come back and share with us.
Aja, my
friend. God is with you.