I may be right. I may be wrong.
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But this time there will be no second chances.
If one commits a mistake, one should own up for his own mistake.
We all should learn from our own failures.
I don’t think that because one member of our family says he
is miserable
We will just embrace him and will say, okay I’ll clean up
your mess or
I will handle your problem, because if we do so, it will
become a cycle.
That one person will not grow up and learn.
No matter how much we care about a person or love that one member
of our family
We should also let them fall sometimes even if it will mean
a hard fall or
It will hurt them badly, that is if you want them to become
better.
But if you only want to spare them from pain simply because you don’t want them to be hurt, I guess we are not helping him or her to grow up.
Loving also means losing control over someone.
Allowing them to feel the pain and get hurt every now and
then.
We will not be around forever to always spare our loved ones
from the pain.
We have to also let them learn to address their own issues alone
and learn from it by themselves.
I am sorry, but not this time. I will not tolerate. Not now,
Not tomorrow, not anytime soon. You have to grow up on your
own.
Because every now and then I also fall, and make mistakes
but I do get up alone.
I never ask anyone to help me out whether it is personal,
family or work issues.
It is important for all of us to know how to decide, to know
when to pursue
And when to stop, to understand, to accept and a lot more
other things that are important
In this journey called life in order to survive.